I spoke to my colleague much more gently than this

[adrian_turtle]

It's not "babysitting" when you take care of your own son! It's babysitting when you take care of someone else's kids. Taking care of your kids, spending time with them, that's just part of being their father. It's not "fathering" at conception and "babysitting" thereafter, you idiot.





But he was still wrong. So there.